Jennifer Lopez is not rushing in to marriage again. The forty four year old former Selena star, who is now forty four years old has been married the total of three times now, has been seeing twenty sevan year old Casper Smart since 2011 and she is quite sure that she won’t be walking down the aisle any time soon. She said: ‘
”In the past, love for me has always meant forever and sure you still nurse those fantasies, but I don’t try to force it any more.
”I hung on to my fairy tale ideals for a long time. But where I am now, what I’ve been through, there are no rules.
”There are lots of ways it can turn out instead of just one. There are so many different kinds of happiness, not just the one you learned about when you were five years old.”
She has also revealed that she has rushed into love in the past, but now is working on why she doesn’t like being alone. She explained:
‘Look I don’t love being alone. I don’t. I can’t beat myself up about that. What I have to do is figure out why I don’t like it. Why am I not OK being alone? And can I be OK facing that?”
She believes that her children, twins helped her focus on the important things in life. She explained in the April edition of InStyle magazine:
‘Kids really focus you – it’s primal. You come home and you’re tired and they have no idea if you’
i’ve had the greatest day or the roughest. ‘Mummy, I don’t care if your head hurts, I want to sit in your lap an eat food in your hair’.”